How To Tell If A Girl Likes You? 6 Main Signs 

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She’s Genuinely Interested in Your Life

Her interest in your daily life, thoughts, values, hobbies, etc. is a good indicator, actually. You probably know those situations when someone answers your questions but doesn’t ask their own questions or when you tell someone about something that happened to you or your new interests and a person is just like “Ok, that’s interesting” or starts talking about their own interests and impression. If a girl likes you, the opposite happens.

Quick Replies

This is one of the all the signs that tell you if a girl likes you or not. She doesn’t disappear for a long time, and though some women still prefer to play that I-don’t-answer-you-immediately game, if she’s interested in dating you, she’ll respond to your messages quickly.

Apologies for Being Gone

If a girl likes you and doesn’t respond to your message fast enough, that’s not always a bad sign. We all have things to do, and we all need that personal space, but if she apologizes for her temporary absence, she definitely doesn’t want you to think that she doesn’t care about you.

Engaging Texts

Again, it’s all about how messages sound. One-word responses and no interest in what you are talking about show that she’s bored and not interested, but if a girl likes you, she’ll write the messages that actually go somewhere. If she’s engaged, she’ll listen to you and share.

Phone Calls Become More and More Frequent

If a woman likes you, texting won’t be enough for her. We’re all looking for a deeper emotional connection with someone attractive, and phone calls and video chats are what help us build it, even if we’re in a long-distance relationship. Frequent calls are definitely a very good sign indicating she’s interested in getting closer to you.

Open Body Language and Eye Contact

If you have a geographically close relationship or even a long-distance relationship with a girl, even if you’re just friends now, you can pay more attention to her gestures, eye contact between you, and facial expressions. Body language can indicate if there’s mutual interest between you. Touches, her body leaning towards you, eyes open wide are the signs she’s comfortable and interested in getting more physically close, while crossed arms show she’s distancing herself.

She Clearly Indicates She’s Free

If a woman doesn’t talk a lot about her guy friends, if she doesn’t talk about her exes and any other guys in her life, it means she doesn’t think you’re just a friend. If she’s giving you all the attention and acts like there are no other men in her life, she shows she’s not easy and doesn’t even consider starting dating someone at the moment.

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Final Thoughts

Even a shy girl can’t hide she likes you. Different people act in different ways, though—but if she’s playing hard, if she’s shy with you more than with anyone else, or if she’s genuinely interested in everything you’re saying, all these things may indicate she has true feelings. Just spot these and other signs of “weird” behavior, and you won’t go wrong if you want to start a relationship with her. 

Erin O'Brien

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Erin Obrien is the one who writes guides for Dating Jedi and uses developmental and contextual approaches both in her work with clients and when sharing her thoughts with our site visitors. Erin believes that relationships are what shape us and helps people to build those healthy emotional connections.